Nighttime is the most relaxing time of the day. If a couple regularly does these things, their love will never cool down but will become stronger.
When going to bed to prepare for sleep, some people will take advantage of this time to entertain themselves, immerse themselves in their own world, so the couple each has a phone and then falls asleep. However, some people take advantage of this time to chat with their other half to confide in each other as well as strengthen their relationship.
In general, no matter what they do, it is the choice of each person, each couple, but if the couple does these things together after turning off the lights, their feelings will become more and more passionate, the family will be happier. With such benefits, why not do it?
1. Couples go to bed togetherIf a couple does these 3 small actions after turning off the lights, their feelings will never cool down – Photo 1.
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Although we know that there are many reasons why couples cannot go to bed at the same time, living in different time zones will make many couples gradually become bored with each other. This means that the couple does not have time for each other, or to put it more harshly, work is more important than the other half.
The wife goes to bed first while the husband is busy working at the desk, or vice versa, which will gradually create distance in the relationship and cool down the feelings. Therefore, if you want the relationship to be closer and more passionate, both should try to go to bed together, minimizing the situation where one person goes to bed first and the other goes to bed later.
2. The couple says something intimateAfter a long, busy day, the couple has little time to talk and confide in each other. When they get home, they rush into cooking, cleaning or taking care of the children, leaving them with little private space. Perhaps the time when the couple lies in bed together after turning off the lights is the perfect time for both to confide and share after a busy, hurried day with hundreds of things to do.
No need for an hour or two hours, just 10-15 minutes is enough for a couple to understand each other better, helping two hearts get closer together. Both of you should put aside all the worries out there, don\’t argue before going to bed, but say something intimate. It can be loving words, words of encouragement, … this action is small but will help strengthen the couple\’s feelings.
3. Husband and wife massage each otherIf a couple does these 3 small actions after turning off the lights, their feelings will never cool down – Photo 2.(Illustration)
Studies show that a gentle massage before going to bed will help relax the mood, thereby improving the quality of sleep. Therefore, couples should massage each other to feel comfortable and relaxed, and this also brings couples closer together.
4. Take the initiative to hug each other
How many couples take the initiative to hug each other after turning off the lights, or do they lie with their backs to each other? I\’m sure many couples will do that.
In fact, hugging each other while sleeping will be very uncomfortable and difficult to sleep. However, if two people are willing to do so, it proves that both of them rely on each other, desire to be close to each other and prove that their love for each other is sincere.
5. Kiss each other after turning off the lights
If a couple does these 3 small actions after turning off the lights, their feelings will never cool down – Photo 3.(Illustration)
Kissing is a way for couples to express their love, but after getting married, many couples “forget” to do this. For these couples, their relationship tends to fade away.
Couples who often kiss each other, before going to work or when they just come home or after turning off the lights, … will help the couple\’s feelings become closer and stronger.
6. Warm each other\’s hands and feet in winter
In winter, hands and feet are very susceptible to cold. If at this time, the couple warms each other, clamping the other\’s legs between their thighs to keep them warm, that person will sleep very well. This action is small but shows love and care for the other half.